"I'm going to go back there someday"

Well I do appreciate you helping me move, you didn't mention that my apartment when I moved was 1/4 the size of yours, and you had a 3 bedroom all to yourself. :-) You know you are a great guy Mav, and I love you dearly. It just wasn't working out between us because you only worked on the things that you wanted to work on, not things that were important to both of us. Plus, you had a wife with a disability, which you knew when marrying me. I have been struggling with flares of that disability since I moved out, and living on my own, which is the reason I couldn't climb 2 flights of stairs to get my stuff. They are only seeing your side. Stop trying to make it seem as if you are a Hero. I'll butt out now, but I do love you. Just the 2 of us didn't work out. Besides, I gave you over a years notice to work on some things before I would move, and you still haven't done them. So now it's 18 months. Don't have the pot calling the kettle black.